Service members do this every day. I did it several times — the last one with a wife and a daughter. Here is how it actually gets done, and why a physician’s start date is the same problem wearing different clothes.
I left the Navy on a Friday afternoon at three o’clock. I was a lieutenant at the Office of Naval Intelligence, working the kind of hours where dress whites and nonstop action were just Tuesday. Right up until the last minute. No coasting to the finish, no long goodbye.
Monday morning, 9:00 a.m. Pacific, I had to be in San Jose, California, ready to work at Cisco Systems. Three days. Coast to coast. New job, new life.
Here’s the part that made it survivable. We didn’t try to solve it in that seventy-two hours. We solved it over the year before.
We built our house in New Hampshire remotely. I flew up from Washington nearly every weekend to walk inspections. We picked out appliances down south and worked an arrangement with our general contractor to have them drop-shipped and installed before we ever arrived. By the time the clock ran out, the house was ready. We just had to show up.
Military families do a version of this constantly. Orders come, the report date does not move, and you go. I had done it before on my own. Doing it with a wife and a daughter is a different exercise entirely — you are not just relocating yourself to a job, you are landing three people into a life.
You are not a Navy intelligence officer moving out of D.C., but you are on the same kind of clock. You are coming out of a residency where you have been a transient renter, into your first attending job. You are going to work a lot of hours. You need to be close to the hospital. And your move has to be timed impeccably, because your start date does not move.
More than that, it has to be easy. You will not have the bandwidth to project-manage a relocation on top of credentialing, orientation, and your first weeks on service.
We can help with the relocation. What we are really after is that you land well.
We will work backward from it. One conversation, no obligation.
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